Wait, Wait, Wait
So to straighten out a misunderstanding by my one reader, I emailed him to sell the wedding dresses. That is when it became "real" to him, and he seemed to realize that I was taking him seriously and that when he said all that stuff, and kept saying "no", "over" I took him seriously.
So my asking him to sell my dresses that I was storing under our/his bed, was the epiphanic (that isn't a real word!) moment.
More to come.
copyright Kc @ 7:34 AM
1 Comments:
If you were to marry him the time when you should be Most 'real' to him is Now. With no distractions of careers, the kids, and other serious time& family obligations.
Overall, this is indicative of a pretty careless mindset. Or of someone who does not know their own mind, or fails to recognize that their words have meaning to loved ones, (perhaps the most serious meaning words will ever attain actually), and in general someone who indeed is not up to the rigors of marriage. Or a long term relationship. He really needs to grow up. This character failure sadly afflicts a goodly portion of the male & female population. Tragically it almost never prevents anyone from subsequently marrying & raising kids for their short time together.
But this would tend to reinforce your impression that he either does not want to marry, is unsuitable to marry, or just is unsuitable to marry you. Anyone of which is reason enough to forget him as a serious prospect for same.
Cheers & Good Luck, 'VJ'
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