Contrary to What He said

Contrary to his statements that he was going to Colorado to figure some stuff out and that he wasn't advocating a break up and he only wanted open, honest discussion, the return brought a breakup. I said I thought we should postpone the wedding (of course not meaning it) and he left to Denver, and came back and agreed to that and more. Postponing wasn't enough. Calling it off wasn't enough. Only complete and whole breaking up and breaking my heart would suffice.
There is nothing like seeing four years of a shared past and a lifetime of a shared future waiver like a heat mist then disappear.

Needless to say his mother and sister will be pleased. There will be at least some happiness coming of this.

I love him. And he loves me. Apparently that just isn't enough.

I would love for him to come to do this in person, there is something insulting about melting away a relationship over the phone. Even better, I would love for him to come and talk through the issues rather than throw everything away.